I hear this a lot. More than a lot. I’m over it. Just because you feel comfortable around me, and I’m a “good listener” doesn’t mean anything. Don’t confuse yourself. I don’t want a relationship. I never plan on getting married. I have my reasons; don’t ask why. I just want to adopt ONE child, and have TWO pets, sleep in a bed by myself…so on & so forth. I’m happier when I’m single. Sex was never that serious to me, and neither is love or being wrapped up in it. Stop trying to figure out why I feel this way, and how you can change my decision. Just accept it, and stand back. All the way back.